23 Reasons That Explains You Are An Introvert
By Richard Waita, Author, Freelancer, and Keynote Speaker.
23. Small talks aren’t their thing
How do you define an introvert? Locating the guy who sits alone in a party or the one who doesn’t speak much? Truth be told, our definition of an introvert is quite wrong. Being withdrawn from the crowd is only a small part of being an introvert. Even somebody who is the life of a party can be an introvert. It’s about finding out how that person perceives the tiniest of details that make him an introvert. Listed below are 23 signs that determine whether you are an introvert or not; Introverts tend to find small talks quite annoying. Some may even say that introverts get nervous while making small talk. It’s not because they dislike people, no, it is because they hate the artificial barrier it creates between the two people.
22. Introverts go to parties not to meet people
Introverts tend to go to parties because of what a party represents, the food and drinks and maybe a few dances. They don’t go to parties to meet new people. That part of a party does not excite them. In fact, they would prefer sitting and talking with the people they know than meet new people.
21. They feel alone in a crowd
Well, this comes up as no big surprise. Introverts do feel alone in a social gathering or any random crowd. They feel different and might let friends or activities pick them, rather than extending their own invitations.
20. Networking makes them feel fake
Networking can sometimes feel like ingenious for introverts. They don’t believe it’s real and prefer making contact with people based on authentic connections. At the same time, introverts find networking very stressful. They don’t want to do so much work or put much effort.
19. Introverts become too intense
A common trait among introverts is that they tend to become too intense. Whether it is discussing a simple topic or reading up something on the internet, they like to go deep. They enjoy delving into the deeper territories of almost everything. They also have a penchant for philosophical conversations.
18. They are easily distracted
Extroverts tend to get bored and distracted when they don’t have anything to do. Introverts are completely opposite. Give them a list of work to do and they will become distracted at the slightest of distractions. In other words, introverts get easily distracted and overwhelmed in environments with an excess of stimulation.
17. Downtime doesn’t feel wrong
Introverts don’t mind spending a day sitting idly at home doing nothing. Rather they tend to thrive in such conditions. They feel the need to recharge their batteries and what better way to do it than sitting at home being unproductive. This trait is completely opposite of an extrovert who feel the need to do something all the time.
16. Large crowds are better than individuals
This happens to be an interesting point regarding introverts. They prefer talking in front of a larger crowd of 500 people than having to talk to individuals or a small number of people. Introverts are proven to be great public speakers and leaders. They can talk to a large mass with ease but struggle while talking about the same thing to a single person.
15. They sit at the end on a bus
Introverts don’t like being surrounded by people. Whether it is in a social gathering or on the bus, they prefer to remain in aside from where they can easily escape. As a result, they tend to sit at the far end on a bus. This way they are not flocked by people on both sides, and they can easily exit the bus.
14. You need a recharging period
Introverts tend to get tired after spending a couple of hours doing something. They also become unresponsive after working for too long. This is their way of switching to energy-conserving mode. Introverts will find a quiet corner and just zone out for a couple of hours and recharge their batteries.
13. Introverts date extroverts
This is the purest example of “opposites attract”. Introverts have a tendency of leaning towards extroverts when it comes to dating. This may be due to the positive vibe and energy spread by the extroverts. These extroverts encourage the introverts to socialize and meet people and do things that they would not normally do.
12. They prefer specializing than knowing everything
Introverts always want to become specialized in one particular skill. They don’t want to become a jack of all trade. They prefer spending all their time and energy learning and mastering one task.
11. Avoid shows with audience participation
Well, the headline is pretty self-explanatory. Introverts don’t want the spotlight to be on them in the middle of the show as the host asks them questions or asks them to participate.
10. Introverts don’t like phone calls
Whenever there is a phone call, even if it is from a person they like, introverts will try to avoid it. They will, however, call back once they feel they have the mental preparation and energy to talk with them. Quite weird, we know.
9. Introverts have good eyes
They will notice details before anyone else does. Call it their own superpower, introverts tend to catch the tiniest of details that may escape the eyes of others. They exhibit an increased brain activity and as a result, they catch such tiny details.
8. They keep talking inside their heads
Introverts have a habit of being in constant conversation with themselves. They think through a matter at least 10 times before acting upon it.
7. They have low blood pressure
According to a study done in Japan, introverts have low blood pressure compared to extroverts.
6. Introverts are called “wise”
Due to their action of thinking things through before acting on it, introverts have been known to be called wise. They think a lot before speaking and as a result, they appear to be wiser than their fellow colleague or friends.
5. Introverts don’t feel high from the surroundings
Introverts differ from extroverts as to the feeling of getting high. They prefer reaping rewards of the environment in a different way instead of partying all the time or using the substance.
4. They look at the big picture
Despite having an eye for details, introverts like looking at the bigger picture. They want to look at a whole image rather than concentrating on one certain part.
3. They are asked to come out of their shell
A common case regarding the majority of the introverts is that, at some point in their life, they have been asked to come out of their shell, socialize more or even participate in class. They have been lead to believe that something is wrong with them.
2. Introverts are writers
Most introverts feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings via pen and paper. Rather than communicating with a person, they find solace in a paper and have proven to be quite creative. They work better when left alone, to express their thoughts by writing.
1. They balance things well
Introverts are good at balancing their time and effort among phase of work, solitude and periods of social activity. If they overspend their energy doing one particular thing, they will move and find a balance again. A period of heightened social activity may be followed by a period of increased solitude and work.
